Longing for Family and Home

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Nostalgie

This song is running through my mind. Nostalgie by Julio Iglesias on Spotify

I suffer from “nostalgie”. The sadness in Julio Iglesias’ voice matches my own mournful feelings. I have been home for nine weeks. I am sad. I miss Jordan. I miss Egypt. I miss my new family of strangers that bonded on the tours.

I quit studying hieroglyphs again at about week 4 or 5, had to focus on other things. Thought maybe focusing on other matters would not change my sense that all is right in the world. It would be a brief break. That was a mistake. The fatalism of the past came back.

Then came another freeing moment, understanding it was a pattern. When I studied Egypt, I would stop.  Egyptology made me sad because it was impossible to be there. This was a recurring pattern in my life. Over the years, finances and safety concerns were legitimate reasons to postpone any sort of meaningful exploration of Egypt. Now that I see it, this should give me the power to overcome it. I broke the cycle once already.

I will go back.

Dipping my toe back into the pool of Egyptology, and whoa….it hit me. Honestly, I have been getting so sad, missing my family who live a thousand miles away, and more, but inside the same country and on the same continent as me. I can make a way to see them, touch them, smell their hair. You know, once a mother. But at the same time, I miss Egypt and Jordan, and my friends. At this very moment, I miss my family who live in my house. It is a torn feeling, all this nostalgie.

This longing for family is not only happening to me. We do what we can to span the miles. This post is self-indulgent, but maybe it will help some of my family and friends who are experiencing similar yearnings for home, family, and connection.

Loved ones move on to their own next adventures. They move out of the house, across town, far away, and even further, they leave this life. Separation is part of the human experience.

Longing for what we love is part of the human condition. In December, my family book club read Bill Bryson’s “A Walk in the Woods: Rediscovering America on the Appalachian Trail”. Bryson reports his own experience of competing longings as a result of his remarkable adventure. I got it. I get it.

Towards the end of his book, he comes to terms with the complicated feelings, like pride, disappointment, realism, aspiration, satisfaction, that surround what is an endurance test and intense bonding experience in a new frontier. Even so, it isn’t over for him. He commits to hitting new goals that he never new he had before going on that hike.

This post was in the queue for February. I didn’t post it or much for a while. Now it is April. Even though I have written it and rewritten it, the sentiments remain true.

Reading Bill Bryson was supposed to be a light read. It turned out to be just what I needed to get me back on track.

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More Real to Me … and Countless Cousins

What was it about my childhood that made The Sphinx, The Great Pyramid, and The Pyramids of Giza, capture my imagination and become part of my reality?

The Sphinx was as real as a baby doll, a shiny red fire truck, or a gleaming black train engine. The Great Pyramid and Three Pyramids of Giza as evident as autumn leaves. That is how I grew up. These were the icons, toys, images, of my earliest days.

People all over the world – and across time – have a lot in common. My childhood had to be similar to the early socialization of many people, of many nationalities, speaking many languages, going way back into antiquity.

It had to be, because all through history, we find people who love and admire Egypt so much that they feel connected to it. This is evident by the variety of entities and organizations who have been immersed in Egypt throughout time. Even so, there are clearly those who don’t feel the pull.

Allow me to create a simplistic dichotomy to make a point. Egypt is more real to me and billions of other people than it is to—the people who don’t feel this way.

Egypt of the past or present must be unreal to some people. This can be confirmed by meeting the ones who don’t know anything about Ancient Egypt or who don’t care about the present day people and politics of a country half a world away. They don’t think of Egyptians as family.

Then there are the undeniable hoards of us who just can’t help but feel that WE are Egypt, too. Are you one of us?

Do not feel alone. This deep bond is continuously happening to people from all parts of the world. I do not think this is silly, wrong, childish, selfish, delusional, or embarrassing. I think it is beautiful.

Egypt is beautiful. Egypt is Mother. Egypt is home.

Those of us who feel this must embrace this affinity. How? By being the favorite people at the Family Reunion that is Egypt. When we visit, we take responsibility for our own behavior. We contribute to harmony through our interactions. We are very respectful and grateful to our Egyptian family who put up with us, their crazy cousins, so to speak.

It was clear traveling through Egypt in November 2022, that family hospitality is everywhere. We were greeted and treated like royalty, elder statesmen, eminent scholars, and cherished friends. Our family historians were omnipresent, gently wise, and humorously enthusiastic about Egypt and Egyptology. Clearly, Egyptology by Egyptians is vigorous and leading the way. At the same time, the contributions of our global extended family are praised and highlighted. It was so gratifying to see so many ways our global brethren have been and are busy at being good members of the family.

Here are just a few examples.

In Alexandria, at the catacombs, there is a sign out front that credits UNESCO and a long list of countries that contributed to the preservation of this ancient setting. This is one of numerous historic sites in Egypt for which USAID has provided funds.

Djeser-Djeseru, the mortuary temple of Hatshepsut, is a most magnificent monument coming to life thanks to the decades of labor of Polish archaeologists.

When the famous temples of Rameses II and Nefertari were in danger – a multi-national team came together to rescue these temples at Abu Simbel from the rising waters of Lake Nasser at the High Aswan Dam. Check out this Ministry of Antiquities website. It has loads of pictures of Abu Simbel, and a fun 3-D tour of the Rameses II temple. Yes, it looks just like this, a bit less well lit, but it is very much like being there. Another traveler could be just around the corner.

https://egymonuments.gov.eg/archaeological-sites/abu-simbel/

These historic masterpieces are just a few examples of our family cherishing the Egypt of the past, present, and future. We may not always agree on what is best, but when we harmonize our efforts, home welcomes us and Mother smiles.

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Day … One?

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Day One – What is Day 1?

At first I thought these posts would be chronological, starting with Day 1 of my Royal Egypt Tour with Archaeological Paths. My Day 1 included the Add-On tour that some of us took while other folks were settling in at the Marriott Mena House Hotel, Cairo. But honestly, “Day 1” was sometime and somewhere before November 2022, when I boarded the plane in D.C.

One of the views from Marriott Mena House, Cairo. It was very cool to have breakfast, lunch, and dinner with these masterpieces.

Was Day 1 the travel day from D.C through Vienna, to get to Egypt? When I landed at the Cairo airport? Maybe it was the “pre-tour museum add-on day” when I saw excellent museums? Or was it in February 2022, when I decided that no matter what, I was going to Egypt in 2022? All genuine beginnings.

Something applied impetus before that. I was hoping to go in 2020 and then 2021, because Dr. Zahi Hawass, the most famous Egyptologist in the world, was sponsoring tours, and on his tours, Jehan Sadat, the widow of Anwar Sadat, was meeting with people in her home!

My interest in Egypt and the Near East goes back to my early childhood when The Sphinx, The Great Pyramid, and the Pyramids of Giza, captured my imagination and were part of my reality before I could read. I shed tears while reading and re-reading Howard Carter’s book about Tutankhamun. Did that happen to you? Then there was the first time I saw Lawrence of Arabia. A lot of people around the world grow up feeling a strong connection to Egypt and the Near East. I met some of them on my tours. You might be one of us, too.

Egypt called to me. Jordan called to me. I answered.

Here is the itinerary for just the Royal Egypt Tour, run by Archaeological Paths. Dr. Zahi Hawass has been the face of these tours for a few years now. We also had the honor of Dr. Mostafa Waziri’s company on several occasions. This was an intense and exhilarating tour. Almost every day was filled with archeological and historical experiences. Just look at the Day 1, “Cairo Museums Add-On”. Looks so quaint, “Oh we’ll just go to a couple of museums.” Those museums were amazing and Thomas, our Tour Coordinator and Shareif, our Tour Guide were the best. I would go back to Cairo just to spend weeks in those two museums, the oh so historically significant pink Egyptian Museum aka “Egyptian Museum of Antiquities” and the new and glorious National Museum of Egyptian Civilization “NMEC“.

If you scroll to the bottom of the itinerary, you will see I was in the Horus group. This was fortuitous, because several of us were already becoming friends.

These two trips, Royal Egypt and the Jordan add-on, were phenomenal. This blog post was not requested by Archaeological Paths and they aren’t paying me to say nice things about them. Thomas, our Tour Coordinator and Shareif, our Egyptologist Tour Guide, Dr. Hawass, and Dr. Waziri were what made this a grand experience. They and all the people who were part of these tours, the planners, guides, Egyptologists, drivers, locals, scholars, and my lovely tour family are why I am sharing this with you.

Please go ahead and click on the links in the blog. You will see that I travelled Egypt in luxury and comfort amongst the world’s leading Egyptologists, visited palaces, met with elder statesman Dr. Moustafa Elfeki, visited museums, cruised the Nile, and also crawled and climbed up, through, and around temples, tombs, and pyramids.

Strangers became friends and I thanked my new friends for going to Egypt and Jordan with me.

If you have had comparable travel experiences, I would love to hear about them.

If you have questions, I will try to answer them.

Thanks,

Mary

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“Travels in the Near East”

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Welcome!

Welcome to my blog, “Post Haste”. This blog has been waiting for me to share it with the world since 2019. Thank you for coming here to help me launch it.

There are so many things that I find interesting, that I never have a shortage of ideas for content. What I have lacked was for a few things to come into alignment, such as a topic that would keep me focused, the time to write, and the mindset for commitment.

My travels in the Near East in November, 2022 provide me with a focus for creativity, and a strong need to capture and share my thoughts. I took the time to explore some of my favorite parts of the world, so I will make the time to tell you about it.

Dead Sea Mud

Getting my Dead Sea Mud on – completely unanticipated pleasure!

While planning my travels to Egypt and Jordan, I also became excited about using this trip as the springboard for Post Haste. When I got back to the U.S., I was a little surprised how many people really wanted to hear about my travels. I wanted to tell stories and share observations, but it became an impossible task to do that by ones and twos. So, in order to not be unfair, I had to just tell folks, “It is too much to tell, so I will blog about it.”

Not that I haven’t wanted to try to bend everyone’s ear whom I encounter. These travels were important and rich experiences for me. Maybe I would have been excused if I had cornered strangers on the street so I could share some important insight. Imagine me grabbing some guy by the lapels and being right in his face with, “You have got to go to Wadi Rum!” Luckily for those strangers, I knew this blog was waiting for me.

So, we will start Post Haste with “Travels in the Near East”.

This is going to take a while. Thank you for joining me on this virtual trip.

Mary